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You may feel as if you do not have choices in this relationship. However, you do have the freedom to love someone because you choose to and not through dependency.
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You have the freedom to leave a destructive or harmful relationship. Recognize your ability to choose what you want and what serves you best.
The relationship may feel like it is serving the other person much more than it is serving you. Is it your responsibility to take care of this person? Think about Mai Swindon guest house khon kaen options you have, and that the other person is capable of making choices.
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Be firm, even when the person ple with you to stay. I am not willing to waver on my decision.
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Choose a time when there are no interruptions, and open the discussion.
The other person may Man up Sutton take your decision. He or she may react in anger, rage, upset, hurt, or sadness.
Even if the person threatens you, remain calm in your demeanor. If the person is yelling, respond with a soft and gentle voice.
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